Ask me anything

Anti-social butterfly. Deeply in love with my family. Enthralled with the magic that is my life. Enamored with a cool kid. Mother of twins that have yet to be conceived. A dot on the larger picture of the universe who hopes to someday be a colon.
ibleachednirvana:

doctor-hu-in-baker-street:

fluffmugger:

galacticpleasuredome:

welcome to australia. being earplugs for your children.

Fuck that shit, the little cunts can buy their own.

fuck me backwards with a telegraph pole

Oi, fuck face

ibleachednirvana:

doctor-hu-in-baker-street:

fluffmugger:

galacticpleasuredome:

welcome to australia. being earplugs for your children.

Fuck that shit, the little cunts can buy their own.

fuck me backwards with a telegraph pole

Oi, fuck face

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2 weeks ago
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It's Nas B: Waiting....

itsnasb:

I think I’ll call her Hope
for she will be the manifestation of the optimism I’ve had of finding you and loving you so much I can’t imagine not making something that is of us in every possible way

I think I’ll call her Serenity
For she will represent the peace my soul feels when yours is nearby

2 weeks ago
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The Black woman is the most unprotected, unloved woman on earth…she is the only flower on earth…that grows unwatered.
Kola Boof, Egyptian-Sudanese-American novelist and poet (via chelebelleslair)

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3 weeks ago
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It's Nas B: Could I be...

itsnasb:

Could I be
Obsessed with you
Undressed by you
Entangled with you
Released from you
Thrown by you into the deep end

Just so I could be
Caught by you
Caught up with you
Swept up in you
Swept away by—

Naa, I’m not saying it right. Let me try this again

Could I be
Linked to you
Engaged by you

1 week ago
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maroutian:

Why I Am a Male Feminist
The word turns off a lot of men (insert snarky comment about man-hating feminazis here) — and women. But here’s why black men should …be embracing the “f” word.
Like most guys, I had bought into the stereotype that all feminists were white, lesbian, unattractive male bashers who hated all men. But after reading the work of these black feminists, I realized that this was far from the truth. After digging into their work, I came to really respect the intelligence, courage and honesty of these women.
Feminists did not hate men. In fact, they loved men. But just as my father had silenced my mother during their arguments to avoid hearing her gripes, men silenced feminists by belittling them in order to dodge hearing the truth about who we are.
I learned that feminists offered an important critique about a male-dominated society that routinely, and globally, treated women like second-class citizens. They spoke the truth, and even though I was a man, their truth spoke to me. Through feminism, I developed a language that helped me better articulate things that I had experienced growing up as a male.
Feminist writings about patriarchy, racism, capitalism and structural sexism resonated with me because I had witnessed firsthand the kind of male dominance they challenged. I saw it as a child in my home and perpetuated it as an adult. Their analysis of male culture and male behavior helped me put my father’s patriarchy into a much larger social context, and also helped me understand myself better.
I decided that I loved feminists and embraced feminism. Not only does feminism give woman a voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from the stranglehold of traditional masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt ourselves, and we hurt our community, too.
~ Byron Hurt Read his entire post: http://www.theroot.com/views/why-i-am-male-feminist?page=0%2C0
Photo by Ellis Binks

maroutian:

Why I Am a Male Feminist

The word turns off a lot of men (insert snarky comment about man-hating feminazis here) — and women. But here’s why black men should …be embracing the “f” word.

Like most guys, I had bought into the stereotype that all feminists were white, lesbian, unattractive male bashers who hated all men. But after reading the work of these black feminists, I realized that this was far from the truth. After digging into their work, I came to really respect the intelligence, courage and honesty of these women.

Feminists did not hate men. In fact, they loved men. But just as my father had silenced my mother during their arguments to avoid hearing her gripes, men silenced feminists by belittling them in order to dodge hearing the truth about who we are.

I learned that feminists offered an important critique about a male-dominated society that routinely, and globally, treated women like second-class citizens. They spoke the truth, and even though I was a man, their truth spoke to me. Through feminism, I developed a language that helped me better articulate things that I had experienced growing up as a male.

Feminist writings about patriarchy, racism, capitalism and structural sexism resonated with me because I had witnessed firsthand the kind of male dominance they challenged. I saw it as a child in my home and perpetuated it as an adult. Their analysis of male culture and male behavior helped me put my father’s patriarchy into a much larger social context, and also helped me understand myself better.

I decided that I loved feminists and embraced feminism. Not only does feminism give woman a voice, but it also clears the way for men to free themselves from the stranglehold of traditional masculinity. When we hurt the women in our lives, we hurt ourselves, and we hurt our community, too.

~ Byron Hurt
Read his entire post: http://www.theroot.com/views/why-i-am-male-feminist?page=0%2C0

Photo by Ellis Binks

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3 weeks ago
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Marriage may not be your cup of tea. In which case, just spend the rest of your life with someone who does :)

Marriage may not be your cup of tea. In which case, just spend the rest of your life with someone who does :)

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3 weeks ago
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